UPDATE: 3/12/08: I placed an updated post to this foolishness here.
UPDATE 3/11/08, 11:15 am: I received a few emails asking what started my “rant” LOL.
I just wanted to state for the record, why I even decided to respond to this individual. Apart from the fact that I got censored due to nepotism on Halima’s blog, it also disgusted me how Evia could try to insinuate that I was constantly emailing or BEGGING her to enter her private blog. A few months ago I sent an innocent and upfront email asking her prices on behalf of a coworker I introduced to her blog over a year ago ( I was curious myself). I actually stopped reading Evia’s blog when she shut off the comments (that was the real feature for me). It never bothered me when she placed her blog on private or paid access. It’s her blog and it’s her right. However, Evia didn’t respond to my short emails about prices (I sent it twice). I realized she may not have wanted to indulge in any possible membership with me LOL, I understood. My coworker emailed her on her own and got a response, fine. Fast forward, the other day on Halima’s blog I was troubled by the constant put down against “overweight” etc. black women by Evia, so I commented and things escalated (I also was not even aware of the fat mammie chronicles on Evia’s blog at the time). Instead of Evia dealing with the issue on hand, she tried to deflect her dubious concern and discrimination, by distorting the fact that I sent her a price inquire way back, and calling me “2 faced” LOL. I also hate people telling LIES on others. It’s sad some people feel you must agree with them at least 99%, even if you share the same goals, you will still be considered “2 faced” LOL.
I don’t hate Evia, and I agree with many things she has stated on different issues. However, I don’t think she’s for ALL black women as she states. It’s one thing to separate yourself from perilous minds, but to do so out of superficialities is a very dangerous thing. What makes her different from the very intra-racist black men she chastise? Hiding behind a health concern makes it better? She’s also a separationist in that regard, and I personally see the serious and unfair danger in this. I feel as black women we need to be careful with all bones that get thrown to us, even by our own. That’s basically it in a nut shell. Thanks for all your support! As the old people say: “Wheel bend, story end!”
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This is in response to Evia, since I am sure mine will be censored on this blog! This person (a black woman) has been going on for too long with her rampant venom against black people, and now aggresively towards certain innocent black females. I will write a better explanation and history to this matter a little later. It’s a shame one has to stoop to such level to combat lunatics of all making.
Evia no need to distort or embellish things. I would never appeal to you for anything. Funny how you interpret things. I guess it’s now evident you can’t help but to think or react the way you do when you find you’ve hit ground with so many people - even a non-mammy like myself. You must have thought you had something to throw in my face, very adolescent. You are not exposing me on anything. I already mentioned how I felt about you regarding that issue on another thread on that very blog. I know you ignore certain black women who would dare to oppose you just because you can’t deal with it. You want to dictate in peace, I respect that. I also wonder if you know how many cyber transvestites you might have lurking your private blogs. As if.
I do not hate you, get over yourself! What makes me “2 faced”? Not agreeing with everything you say? So I can’t share some of your views, yet have a mind of my own to oppose the other things as well? And because I defend against the cyber lynching of overweight black women, and black women with “out of wedlock” children, this makes me “fat” and God knows what else too? LOL I guess it just can’t be any other way with you. LOL.
I will state this again!
Don’t be bias with your black female health bashing now. It seems it’s clearly easier to single out and self righteously separate and walk on top of other black women with open visual flaws such as being “fat”. If we are going to play the health concern game, how come the same black women who have the flaps to talk about “fat” and oow breeding black women don’t dare mention or equally emphasize on the MANY growing cases of STD/HIV/AIDS among ALL black women regardless of class, hue, hair choice, body size, background or education?Perhaps it’s better left alone because if THAT was to be openly lamented on these blogs, anybody or any white man for that matter, could make a blind guess that any of you regardless of size might be that one black chic who’s infected! Or, even one who suffers with that other growing case among black women called mental illness and depression. Yeah let’s talk about fat people.
Now, I don’t do blog wars, and I’m choosing to mince my words even on my own blog. You can relax and save your hysterical “fox vs. grapes” psychobabble for someone else who you think might be intimidated by your delusions of grandeur mob style dictatorship and cowardism.
As a matter of fact, I don’t read your blog. I have not done such for a long time. Don’t be disappointed. I give my full support to other black women in IR’s. However, I find you to be an extremist, and your demeanor echos one of a sociopath. I am not trying to be mean, vindictive or even condescending as you. I can’t mince my words on this. You can go back into your private blog world and continue to lash out impetuously at others. We all have a life, but I will be revisiting this again. Unlike you, I don’t have to hide my words or request cyber friends to delete replies that come behind of mine. You have proven your ulterior motives, and you’re the worst of the cowards. I am so sorry I ever supported you and defended your work in the past. I too believe in not supporting those who don’t show reciprocation, compassion or respect for ALL black women, even the “fat” ones as you stated.
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